Bond strengthened by spirit of connecting and sharing THABO AND KEVIN EASTERN Cape engineer Kevin Kwinana paid lobola for his designer spouse, Thabo Makhetha, and even though they truly became happy with their tradition through the procedure, Thabo points down that in lots of other communities the part of greed has altered this is of lobola. “We’ve been endowed with wonderful families that have made us excited to start this brand new chapter of our everyday lives. We don’t think the custom that is traditional outdated after all, but alternatively gets abused,” Thabo said. “In numerous communities, the greater the woman is educated, the greater the potential husband is anticipated to spend. “In numerous instances, this is the man whom pays the bride-price (he could be not often yet that is financially able on various circumstances).